Sunday, September 14, 2014

Letter home 9-14-14

Hello Family and Friends! Hope you all had a fantastic WEEK! It must of been a good one because all of the e-mails I have been receiving from everyone have been happy. Sounds like the weather is starting to change at home from summer time to winter time, that is okay with me because the sun in shinning over here in New Zealand and the tanning season is starting once again, YES!!!!!

My old companion Elder Long left and went down to Auckland, he is serving in the very first area that I started my mission which is Manakau. Surprisingly I still remember the name of the first area I served in. He is in the Nui program which is a language program. You are all wondering "why is it that Elder Thorpe is getting new companions!" well..that is a good question because I don't know why...maybe it is because they get jealous of my wonderful smile or hair style. Who knows but the mission president is always inspired. We both said our goodby's, little tears here and there and laughs. Elder Long was happy to leave Whagarie because he has been here for six months, so half of his mission, it was good to see him happy but at the same time I was sad to see him go. My new companion is Elder Hall, it is an easy name to say which is already a check mark off the good companion list. Elder Hall is from England!!!! Chip Chip Cheeryooo!!! He has a hard proper English accent, not like American English because nothing is more proper than the American language. He is the best! Funny story is that when I was in Henderson in Auckland with my old companion, Elder Lewis was in the same place were I met Elder Hall, so we pretty much knew each other before we got put together. Elder Hall is the new district leader, this is his first time being a district leader, he told me on the car ride up here that he was so EXCITED to be my companion....so honored to be loved by other missionaries. 

This week was a fast week because of transfers! Elder Hall and I, on our first night together, went out to go teach a lesson already set up with an investigator and we brought a member with us. This investigator we taught, his name is Sterling a 18 year old boy who is looking to change his life. Background story of his life, is that Sterling grew up playing sports, was talented and could have possibly of gone pro. He hung out with the wrong group of kids that drew him down the wrong path. My last companion and I met him a couple of Sundays ago, found out that his grandparents he is staying with are active members in our ward. Going to the lesson on Thursday night just after getting back from transfers meeting in Auckland which was a three hour drive, we were ready to teach Sterling. Brother Maxwell a recent convert to the church came out with us that night. Brother Maxwell never was interested in the church, but his wife was always a member, long story, short, brother Maxwell decided to take the discussions with the missionaries and be baptized. My companion, me, brother Maxwell and Sterling started having a discussion. In the middle of the lesson brother Maxwell started bearing his testimony to Sterling. We sat there watching Sterling's expression when brother Maxwell told about his testimony and his story of joining the church. Knowing about brother Maxwell's background, Sterling felt at peace and comfortable. He told us later that he would like to take the discussions to see where he should be. Sterling is so humble, he will sit there and listen to every word we tell him and he takes it to heart. An 18 year old who is looking to change, is humble and welling to do anything to change his past is an 18 year old looking for the Savior!

On Sunday we went to the branch that we covered instead of our ward. We had planned already to go to Pie Pie Wie. The branch was having the primary program. It was amazing to see the little ones go up and share their talks. There was this one primary song that I really got into. When I say that what I mean is that I could have gotten up in the middle of church and started dancing, but I didn't. I forgot the name of the song but it was a good song. We were able to meet two investigators at church and found out that both have been coming to the branch all their life. One is 16 and the other is 18, not brothers and don't know each other but have been coming to church. The 16 year old boy, which I have forgotten his name, is gay but knows about the family proclamation is looking to change his life. He had an interview with our bishop and understood the circumstances and is wanting to change. We will go by next week to his moms place to ask if we could possibly start teaching him. I don't see him any different than a brother who is wanting to change his ways and we as missionaries are here to be guides to help those understand the teaching of our Savior and how his teachings can help us change.
     The 18 year old is Abraham and he is MASSIVE, not too round but fit and TALL!!!!!. We went to our members house that he was staying with. His partner, who he had his baby boy with, is part of the member family that Abraham is staying with, so she is the daughter of the our second counselor of the branch presidency. Elder Hall and I started talking to Abraham and asking him about his understanding about the church. Found out that he used to be taught by our zone leaders, knows everything about the church. We asked him what was stopping him and he told us that getting permission from his dad is something he wants to do and having that family support. Elder Hall and I sat there and waited for the spirit to tell us what to say to him, then without an hesitation we challenged Abraham, before the 18th of October, to ask his dad's permission to be baptized. Then we asked him to be baptized on that date and he said yes, without thinking at all. We were BOLD towards him but not over baring that the spirit was able to touch him. Sometimes it just takes those simple words of love and encouragement to tell those we love and care for to show how much the Lord is wanting them to take that next step to change. Not us, but the Lord. 

I have learned this whole week that CHANGE....is not scary but change itself means that we are willing to forget the past and move on forward. I used to think change is something that would be easy but looking back, the mission life has changed my perspective of the church. All the teachings of the church are all about having the will to change, just like when our Savior said to our Heavenly Father "let thy will be done", those words were coming from our Savior saying to our Father, I am ready to do what you ask of me, this is your will and I am ready to do it, to change, to become a better person, or to be who you have always seen me as. I have never been so happy in my whole life, the changes that have come in my life are remarkable. Stories, friends, and families that I will always cherish because they have all changed me.
     My words of advise to all those who are not serving a mission or are, is that you don't need to be on a mission to change. There are plenty of ways that are provided for us to have that chance to change, we just have to be willing to ask for help. Don't be afraid of changing, there is a quote I have been going by on my mission, "change shows that you are spiritually growing" or in other wards change means you are becoming that person that you have always where, are, and will become. 

Have a fantastic week! Dont forget to smile and to laugh once in awhile! 
From Elder Thorpe, the short Elder



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